Understanding Low Mood: 9 Ways to Manage Low Moods and Feel More Positive

Have You Ever Felt Stuck in a Low Mood?

Low moods can hit when we least expect them. Sometimes, you might feel down without knowing exactly why, and I want you to know that’s completely normal. We all go through it—myself included. Life throws us so many challenges, and sometimes it feels like it’s too much. But I want to remind you that feeling low is a natural part of being human. Understanding and managing it can help you navigate through those tough days, and today, I want to share a few thoughts on how we can do that together.

What Is a Low Mood, and How Is It Different from Depression?

A low mood can come from a rough day, stress, or even just feeling a bit “off.” We all have had those days where nothing feels quite right, and it’s easy to think there’s something wrong with us. But more often than not, it’s temporary and passes on its own. However, if that feeling sticks around for weeks and starts affecting your day-to-day life, it might be more than just a low mood— and in some cases, it could be depression.

Depression is not something we can just push through. It affects how we think, feel, and function. The important thing is recognizing when you might need a bit of extra help. It’s okay to ask for support when you need it; we all do sometimes.

Stress can play a huge role in low moods, too. I know when I’m stressed, everything feels heavier. If that’s something you’re dealing with, managing stress is key to stopping it from dragging you down further. I recently wrote about ways to handle stress—if you’re feeling overwhelmed, you might find it helpful to check that out here.

Have You Identified What Triggers Your Low Moods?

I’ve learned over the years that certain things always seem to trigger my low moods, and maybe you’ve noticed the same. It could be poor sleep, skipping meals, not getting enough exercise, or feeling disconnected from friends. Reflecting on those patterns can be so helpful. Personally, I find that journaling helps me track when my mood dips and why. Have you ever tried keeping a mood journal? It can be such a great way to identify the little things that weigh on you without you even realising it.

Understanding Low Mood: 5 Ways to Manage Low Moods and Feel More Positive

How to Lift Your Spirits: 9 Simple Steps to Feeling Better

Feeling low is a part of life, but you don’t have to stay stuck there. By making small, intentional changes, you can create a positive shift in your mood. Here are 9 ways to help lift your spirits and bring balance back into your day:

  1. Get Active:
    Exercise isn’t just for your body—it’s for your mental well-being too. Physical activity triggers the release of endorphins, those feel-good chemicals that naturally improve your mood. Even a short walk can provide a noticeable lift.
  2. Embrace Self-Compassion:
    In tough times, it’s common to be overly self-critical. Practising self-compassion helps reduce the weight of negativity. Treat yourself with kindness and patience, just as you would a close friend, to foster emotional resilience.
  3. Ground Yourself with Mindfulness:
    Practising mindfulness helps keep you in the present moment, preventing low moods from overwhelming you. Simple exercises like deep breathing or meditation can provide a sense of calm and mental clarity.
  4. Lean on Loved Ones:
    Connection is a powerful antidote to low mood. Talking to someone who understands you can lift your spirits and help you process your feelings. Remember, opening up doesn’t make you a burden—it strengthens relationships and relieves emotional pressure.
  5. Prioritise Restful Sleep:
    Quality sleep is essential for mental health. Establish a calming bedtime routine and limit screen time before sleep. When you prioritise rest, you’re more likely to wake up feeling refreshed and emotionally balanced.
  6. Set Achievable Goals:
    When your energy is low, setting small, manageable goals can restore a sense of purpose and accomplishment. Start with one task at a time, and celebrate the little victories along the way. Progress, no matter how small, can lift your spirits.
  7. Fuel Your Mood with Nutrition:
    What you eat affects how you feel. Incorporate nutrient-rich foods like fruits, vegetables, and whole grains into your diet. Certain foods, especially those high in omega-3 fatty acids, can have mood-boosting effects.
  8. Find Joy in Creativity:
    Engaging in creative activities—whether it’s painting, writing, or playing music—allows you to express your emotions in a productive way. Creativity can also provide a much-needed break from daily stresses, bringing a sense of fulfilment and peace.
  9. Reach Out for Professional Help:
    Sometimes low moods persist despite our best efforts. Reaching out to a mental health professional can provide the support you need to navigate these challenges. Therapy offers tools for managing emotions and regaining perspective, so don’t hesitate to seek help when you need it.

 

Even the smallest of these actions can have a big impact on how you’re feeling. As the National Library of Medicine highlights:

“It is estimated that 16 to 20 out of 100 people will have depression or a chronic low mood (dysthymia) at least once in their lives. Women are affected more than men, and it is more common in older people.”

This underscores the importance of being proactive in managing low moods. Understanding that so many people experience these feelings at some point in their lives helps normalise the experience, reminding us that it’s okay to seek support when we need it.

When Is It Time to Seek Help?

If your low mood feels like it’s sticking around longer than usual or starts interfering with your life, that’s when it’s time to consider seeking professional help. It’s a brave and important step, and it’s one I’ve taken myself. Therapy can provide tools to help manage your feelings, and sometimes, just having someone to talk to can make all the difference. Whether it’s therapy, a support group, or opening up to a friend, reaching out is a sign of strength.

Remember to Be Kind to Yourself

I want you to remember that managing a low mood is not about being perfect. It’s about understanding yourself, taking small steps, and knowing when to ask for help. Be gentle with yourself on those hard days. You don’t have to go through it alone. And if you need support, reach out—you’re worth it.

Jeanette Dreyer

Jeanette Dreyer

As a Psychologist with more than 25 years of experience, Jeanette offers a supportive and nurturing environment where her clients can find the support they need to navigate life’s challenges. If you’re ready to begin your journey towards healing and self-discovery, we are here to guide and support you every step of the way.

Book an In Person or Online session with Jeanette

Book your appointment below, or via WhatsApp, phone, or email.

What to read next:

Insomnia: A Case Study

For 1 in 10 people, insomnia is an ongoing struggle that affects every aspect of a person’s life, sapping their energy, making it difficult to concentrate, & making them feel

Read More »